Anilingus a dream

Hello readers of FTS, my name is Stella and the first paper on FTS, I'll give you some tips for providing me a dream cunnilingus, who will make me scream with pleasure without worrying about neighbors.

Phase 1: Prior to taste

To begin, like all girls (well I think) I need hugs, kisses me with passion like that, let me caress tenderly to raise my desire. Then start by licking my breasts and nipples tickle me, and then gently down to my belly and the navel lick me, I love ... Let me languish and stay a while to play with your tongue on my lower abdomen and place the palm of your hand on my pussy to announce the color and make my panties drop gently down my legs.

If you have taken your time, I will begin to moisten. This is the starting signal for me that you prodiguiez cunnilingus MY dream!

In summary, raise my desire to see a bit of frustration before you head to my pussy ... Let me time to want!
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Phase II: Delicately early

Now that I am wet, is the advantage of raising the excitement, just put your mouth on my cock. Start by dropping a few kisses on my pussy wet, then drop me. Play with your tongue on my lips before coming gently lapping my clit. Go slowly at first to allow time for my body to get used to these wonderful sensations! There is no hurry, and finally me at least -

Lick me vertically from the entrance to my vagina to my clit, making small horizontal movements of tongue on my love button, make small circles with your tongue, etc. ... Give up now and then my clit for playing with my lips, put your tongue in my vagina and my anus licked with relish

In summary, vary the movements of language to surprise me every time you léchouilles ;-)

Phase III: The faster and stronger!

When I feel really excited, it is time to accelerate the pace and pressure of your tongue on my clitoris. Above all, do not stay at the stage of softness and delicacy, if you do not want me to fall asleep. At this point in the whirlwind of fun, I do not really want to love, if I dared, I would ask you to eat my pussy

Now use your fingers, frig me (gently!) The clitoris, make the drive between your index finger and pushes, then put two good fingers in my vagina (a, it's no use) ... I am not against a finger into my little hole at the same time if you have well moistened with saliva prior ;-)

IV: Make me cum please!

My cries of pleasure are more and more present, while most do not stop there! I promise, I'll take care of you when I enjoy! Take extra intensity, speed up the movement of your tongue on my clit and fuck me with your fingers until you feel the spasms of pleasure through my body. Stop when my legs will close on your face, then place a final kiss on my sex. Congratulations, you just give me my dream cunnilingus!

For me, a cunnilingus is not just a preliminary , it is a sexual act in its own right, then never stop a cunnilingus before I enjoy, except of course if I ask you ... there is nothing more frustrating!

How to cunnilingus?

Cunnilingus oral stimulation is the sex of the woman. Some women do not like, much love ... and few men can do a proper cunnilingus. Under these conditions one may ask: how good cunnilingus? And if we left to respond to major affected speech?
In this paper, Elisa, tired of cunnilingus "blows of language" so labrador, proposes to explain to the boys what girls want in cunnilingus. If you ever wanted to know what makes the difference and helps to melt the girls, this article is for you.

How to make a (good) Anilingus

Good. It's good to know seduced, but must still provide after ... With this galaxy of young men who will not take long to master the tricks of seduction, he will perhaps have to give them a boost ... Here's a little instructions for taking your sexual partner at the seventh heaven for sure.

Anilingus: Tips

Know first that Anilingus "direct", "cold", it hurts. We girls are fragile, especially at this point and need to be gradually excited that our body is ready to accept caresses.

Once, my boyfriend had just put perfume and had alcohol on his hands ... It burned me like never before, the alcohol being very aggressive, I was irritated mucosa: So wash your hands thoroughly before ... it will avoid such inconvenience, which for once break the ambiance.
Keep nails short, preferably files (nothing worse than too sharp nail or hook).

The cunnilingus instructions

Start by kissing (and apply yourself, it can not hurt). Women often complain that men do not kiss them enough, especially if they have been together for a long time. You can not do wrong with passionate kisses. A simple kiss can give languorous desire to go further.

Then I suggest you give her a sensual massage. We love it, and there is no such thing to make us want.

Take long caresses on each body part, embrace it all, but do not dwell further on gender. Marinate, it's called teasing make:).
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The position in which you can vary. Personally I prefer to be lying on her back, he on the side, near moi.Il is more contact between the two bodies.

Kiss the neck, chest, belly, etc ... Take time to caress her thighs, especially inside.
Your goal is to excite and to anticipate when you go fondle her vagina.
I emphasize that this part should last a long time, and must be gradual.
Do not rush to her breasts, for example ... Raise fun.
First pet her belly, ribs, hips ... climb gradually back down ... two steps forward, one step back ... Take action against her breasts as you will act later to her sex do not make the hungry.

In short, after a while, move your hand close to her pubis her vagina.
Do not touch it again but move your hand so close that it will feel the heat ... During this time you should be the kiss on the mouth or on the breasts (EG! Do not think that it is a manual to follow to the letter, step by step!).

Bring your hand and put her pubis two fingers on each side of her vagina, and slowly and gently, massage the entire area for 2 to 3 minutes.
Now get down between her legs, and slowly and sensually, kissed and licked her thighs and let gently slide your tongue on her leg ... .. Caress her thighs, her calves ...

Approach slowly as possible magic of the area by delaying the maximum downhill and accompanying fake initiatives (half-turn back towards the belly or breasts down for more ...) in suspense and surprise his partner is always a good way. When it comes to the sensitive area not to rush on sex from the start but still make the pleasure last focusing on the inner thighs, pubis and legs ..

Then when the time is right, start touching his cock still closed with his lips and tongue slowly ... very slowly ... almost without touching it, so imperceptible so as not to let the hot breath of the breath touch the corners of the mouth and provide intangible but very real feeling ... (and oh so delicious).

It is fashionable to board gently up and down several times along the route of the tjs slot divine develop towards more and more without "open" yet the vulva. Then gradually interfere language and more ... in the slot to open gradually seeking micro-contacts.En discovering bit by bit the taste of this fruit ... freshly discovered small tickling the tip of the tongue, licking intermittent ...

Then it's time to focus on our friend the clitoris, back to him one last time ...
Gently lick "around" at first, describing concentric circles while slowly approaching the most sensitive point (always act so that it realizes that the best is yet to come) ...

Once reached the divine purpose, the tickle gently with the tip of the tongue in the "moving" from its point of attachment, while driving on its axis from top to bottom or left to right ...
Begin to tickle more, not forgetting to lick from time to time to announce the next step and wet to moisten even more ...
Finally, begin to lick freely while continuing to move on its axis.

Lick by increasing the pressure with your tongue before ending crescendo by slight suction and a replica of masturbation very intense and growing rapidly with the tip of the tongue.

In the end, you have the right to insert a finger or two, and do come and go, turning a little why not: it really enjoys some girls (including me, I admit).

If all guys could be like that, it would not go over the bed:)

After everyone to adapt to the way keeping in mind that like that, in general, and girls love it There's a good chance they beg you to complete them: good times in perspective :)

Fall in love with a co-worker: for or against?

Love has no law, certainly, and even more so at work, where a recent study conducted by the job site Monster, about a couple of two forms. Positive or negative ... Discover what awaits you if you feel like! 

Love made in job

Specifically, according to the same study, 47% of employees have already had an affair in the office. And more than one European in two would have been an intimate story with a colleague. It's huge, you'd think most likely? And you're right, several conditions that make it easier ... Stress, routine work can enable this reconciliation. Also with the Internet or intranet instant messaging, and even mailboxes where it becomes easier to communicate and reveal his feelings. The occupation and skills you have can also be a center of common interest! And then you come across almost every day or several times a day!

The positive effects ...

Flirts with a colleague at work can sometimes be good! We get up lighter and happier going to work every morning. It also helps sometimes to be more efficient, for the sake of being admired by such person or to be replaced arch. It is beautiful every day to reach his office, without the need for a real opportunity to get ready. It is often very exciting to imagine being able to embrace one of his charming colleagues or be kissed without being seen, behind a door in room photocopiers ... Many employees eat this kind of fantasy.

The Bad ...

You suspect that this is too good and many hick there a. .. Risk because there are so many! It must first find its balance with the same person at work, the cross every day can cause some significant difficulties ... Conflicts and professional opinions on a shared folder, jealousy, desire revived every time you are together in the same room ... As for the break, if it succeeds can make the business climate terrible, unbearable ... and can sometimes go up to the transfer request! In addition, compared to colleagues or higher, you may appear less credible ... not to mention the noise corridor!

Not easy to manage a relationship with a colleague from work ... Yet, according to the results of this study, it seems almost inevitable! If this has happened, feel free to give your views to help those who are about to cause irreparable!

Anal sex and anal sex

Long taboo sexual practice, sodomy interests more and more couples, and raises many questions. However, between myths and stigma carried by intolerance, outright lies and misconceptions, many continue to circulate false information about sodomy.
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Once and for all, let all the light on the subject.

Sodomy is the penetration of the anus and the rectum or partner, usually with the penis, although a sex toy to replace it. Using a strap-on, a woman can sodomize his or her partner and thus reverse the roles.

For anal sex, in this article and throughout the site, you will hear all forms of anal eroticism, including manual stimulation, lingual (the tongue) and penetrations of all kinds .

pressure and sex
The area of the anus and rectum first centimeters is very rich in nerve endings (well above the vagina!), Its stimulation can be a source of intense pleasure for the recipient. In addition, when the recipient is a man, stimulation of the prostate can lead to powerful orgasms according to testimony.

Unusual feeling for recipients beginners, it may take some time before the discomfort is replaced by the pleasure the recipient, regardless of sex, must get used to the feeling and reassurance. As the donor, the anus is tighter than other outlets, penetration gives him a certain pleasure.

Ideas about sodomy

Many ideas about sodomy, here's what to know and not believe.

Myth # 1: sodomy hurts

Contrary to popular belief, sodomy is not and should not be painful. In fact, with good communication, trust, gentleness, lots of lube, and when properly prepared, sodomy does not hurt, and a lot of fun for both partners. If There's pain there is that you do it wrong, too fast or you have not prepared enough sodomy with foreplay.

Myth # 2: sodomy is dirty

With minimal preparation, sodomy is not dirty! The rectum is emptied after using the toilet and hygiene normal / balanced diet provides all the required cleanliness. In short, you can allay your fears about it. That said, it does not relieve you of the actions of basic hygiene (shower, bath, ...). The washing is by no means mandatory.

Myth # 3: sodomy causes anal incontinence

This urban legend has a tough life: yet it is as stupid as the claim that masturbation would make deaf. The anus is not like a shirt that expands by pulling: it is opened and closed by the muscles. However, if one can temporarily relax muscles by working them, they always return to their original tone (do you think the fact of using your arm muscles use his?). In fact, anal sex would make it more tone the sphincter muscles and thus, enhance muscle health of this whole area.

Myth # 4: sodomy is something perverse / slutty / of homos

Few people talk about it since this practice is still taboo and decried by well-meaning, but in reality, many people exploring anal pleasure, women and men, both as donors and recipients. Your neighbor has probably already tried (and probably she loves it, and despite their claims, many heterosexual men enjoy / appreciate receiving a finger or two or more. Question of openness, and daring sex!

Evidenced by the amount of accessories for the anal sex sold in recent years, and the constant increase of sales: now, customers no longer limited to gays, but according to the owners of sex shops, more women "clearly heterosexual" come to buy plugs and dildos-belts.

For a good anal

Besides the pleasure strictly physical, the psychological dimension is added: the feeling of breaking a taboo, forbidden to indulge in pleasure, that of a practice satiated "demeaning" to explore the most primal instincts, but also the pleasure associated with the idea to afford, or to submit to submit another.

Anal sex and security

The walls of the rectum is very fragile, There are frequent brownouts during anal intercourse, which makes it very dangerous unprotected by encouraging the transmission of STDs as well as any kind of sex you MUST protect you if you and your partner are not tested negative for STDs (AIDS and other diseases). If your partner is your girlfriend or your boyfriend, you can not do without if you are tested and faithful both. If your partner is a sexual partner, protect yourself: do not risk your life for an orgasm.

The rules (non negotiable) are:

Use condoms for anal sex (never more than one at a time, otherwise they will crack and break)
No ANNULINGUS (or else use a condom oral)
Avoid fingers (if you have micro-cuts, you can pass or be infected) or wear latex gloves, and have short nails and limes

Grease!

Contrary to the vulva and vagina, anus and rectum do not secrete natural lubrication. Saliva as a lubricant and insufficient penetration is likely to be difficult, painful and damaging the fragile walls of the rectum. It is therefore necessary to use a lubricant (or "inner gel") in generous amounts, and 'reapply if the report should continue.

Prefer water-based lubricants or, better yet, silicone. Never use oil-based lubricants or grease such as petroleum jelly, which damages latex condoms and exposes partners to infection with STDs.
Prepare sodomy with long preliminary

The anus was "locked" by powerful muscles, sphincters, take time to relax and excite your partner, and so prepare the muscles to facilitate penetration, otherwise it will be painful for both.

Use your fingers, your tongue and / or sex toys (dildos, plugs) and lots of lube to prepare your partner's ass (follow the safety rules outlined above). Take it easy, do not force, and pay attention to his reactions: for anal sex is the receiver who runs. Never forget that "partner stress = anus closed."

Sodomy "dry", without lubrication or preparation visible is a myth conveyed by the porn movies: do not be fooled, the actresses are "prepared" before the scene, it's just that 90% of preliminary are edited out.

Health and sodomy.

Many are held back by the primary role of the rectum, and the fear that the report be dirty or unpleasant (remnants of fecal matter, odors, bacteria, ...).

In fact, as was mentioned above, in a normal person, feces are stored in the large intestine and only passing through the rectum, so after a trip to the bathroom, there is nothing left "inside." Gestures of hygiene and possibly a shower before sex ensures the most perfect cleanliness. As a precautionary measure (and because it can raise troubling sensations), some like to do an enema before starting a sodomy. The enema is to flush her rectum with warm water. However this may weaken and irritate the rectum, and is, needless to say, not at all necessary.

However, care must be taken not to engage in other penetrations qu'anales after sodomy: you could contaminate the vagina or mouth of your partner with bacteria of the intestinal flora. It is therefore highly recommended to use a condom for anal sex, and change if the sex to continue after anal penetration.

In conclusion

Hopefully this article has made you more familiar with the subject, he could answer any questions you could ask, and he was able to allay fears and misconceptions that you might have.

However, we scratched the surface of anal sex, and we are limited to flying over the important points.

Let's finish this introductory article with a quote, that of the famous American journalist (and pretty young woman) Tristan Taormino, in the preface of his book:

"The first time someone put a finger in the ass, I nearly faint. [...] I have so enjoyed the new sensation that I was therefore eager to renew it. The first time I in my turn, put my finger into the anus of another, the experience was rich: I felt all the confidence in my partner, abandoning, exposing me her most intimate vulnerabilities. [...] The anal eroticism had more room in my sex life and she became terribly exciting. My sex were particularly hot, my partners very bold and my orgasms more explosive. Physical sensations I felt were some of the best I have ever experienced. I also confide that beyond the "gratuities" body, the feeling of breaking a taboo thoroughly excited me. I knew that even the most dirty of my friends did not do that, or if they did, they never talked about it [...] "

Tristan Taormino's book, All about anal pleasure , is by far the most complete and most readable of all the books ever written on the subject.

Finally, for those who might want to go further, I published another article explaining how to make a sodomy in good conditions: from my experience and that of my friends, it is guaranteed 100% helpful, ° % intox. No doubt you will find it useful and enlightening if you ever want to deepen your experience in this field.

Enjoy!

LOVE AS A SPIRITUAL PATH

Each of us longs for love. But is the sharing of everyday life, bed, table and neurotic patterns really all we want?

A relationship in the spiritual sense says:

My weaknesses to see your weaknesses. Do you think we dance together and be stronger together?
Where are you, who feels what I suffered, thinking what I thought, who knows what I realized?

Where are you, brother of my soul?

In deep solitude I go my way. Even people who are close to me to have me really far. Nobody understands the recognizes understands. I still believe that you exist. For you, brother, friend, lover I want to write
And when we meet only in those valleys of the nebula, which belong to another world. There we will go together and we finally find, at last. My heart longs for you, my beloved. Where are the days when we are united in the heavenly dance through the air flying? Against a sun that did not burn, but our souls warmed and healed. How we loved and had sworn never again to separate us. The time demanded their victim, and since then I go alone. The intimate chord in me, my love is true, you. When are you coming? When will we find ourselves in that punch that will never end? As you look now, brother of my soul? Far is only my memory of your image. When we meet again, I'll recognize you by your eyes. At the depth of the look of your love, your concern for me that I had to spend so long without you. We have promised and rediscover my love, if time and space allow us. And again I ask: When are you coming? The order was: Finding Peace ohn s you. The wheel of learning, which further drives us all wrote to me - far too long have you lived with him in security - now, the goal is: Calm your heart grow, grow strong, without him. If your job is done, you'll find it again

Obviously I was a long time ago, emerged as these lines, a very bright thing that longed for the soul partners - that mysterious second half, which we ostensibly from the beginning of time, and by which we - this doctrine by - already spent some lives. And apparently, I understood even then that this one man is not so readily fall into our lap, but you must toil for it somehow.
Honestly, what exactly do you mean when you say "I love you"? Could that besides the expression of a certain tenderness (hopefully!) also mean: "I need you so that you care for me, I am plagued with the children must not solo, regular sex takes place, no one calls me single and I do not even fucking 'm alone? And do not leave me, or I die. "

The author and tarot expert Gerd Ziegler writes: "What many people" love is called "a mixture of fears, needs, expectations, possessiveness and mutual dependence. Of course there are also moments of deep connection and happiness, but despite everything, is the reality in most partnerships are more influenced by a juxtaposition as one of cooperation. "
Who of us but not even the idea of ​​romantic love in which the couple riding in a red-hot sun, into everlasting happiness? No man wants to know what happens when X has taken hero heroine Y in his strong arms and the word "end" indicates that it is time to leave the cinema. Somewhere between this alluring sunsets and the cliché "I need you because ..." is the mystery of a deep and genuine partnership.

What does it mean to have a spiritual relationship? Contrary to the impression which could leave the word "spiritual" Perhaps it is not, from now on only in a monastery to pray and to reject any sexual activity as the devil's work. Rather, it means that me and my partner is aware: "I am composed of a very specific reason with precisely the people. We both have important things to learn together and it is the sense of partnership that is more from each, not less. This process can be breathtakingly beautiful and profoundly frightening. But each of us is wholeheartedly committed to do his best. The question is not "What will I get?" But "What can I learn here?" Part of the learning process may also be to go at the right time when the problems are no longer the growth, but destroy. " That is a comforting concept in contrast to "normal" relationships, in which war, boredom, the game "You can not restrict me, may I ensure that when you also" prevail, or a self-arranging.

The spiritual teacher and bestselling author Marianne Williamson writes: "Few people realize how powerful a true love relationship to physical and emotional healing. It satisfies our need for adventure, meaning, magic and enchanted an emotional bond with another person on the deepest level. " But with so much price, the gods are known to have set very much sweat. The path often leads to deep fulfillment through dark valleys of pain, which may just trigger a committed relationship. Marianne Williamson: "Real love is comforting and reassuring, but usually not from the beginning. We must first break the shell that hides our own heart. It can require hours of tears, to bring the hard shell to melt that surrounds our delicate insides - tears for any past pain, loss or humiliating failure that comes through the relationship to the surface. Allow people to these tears are no losers, but truly courageous. Because: First comes the pain and then the force. First, it breaks my heart and then rises. "

Can it really be the meaning of a love relationship, to let old wounds break open? Strangely enough, yes. We need to make visible the wounds, they choose f u, so that they can heal. Only a person who is really close to us can do that. Marianne Williamson: "The light of love is destined to the weird, painful aspects of our soul to appear on every piece of past brokenness that lies hidden under the rocks in our hearts. But in this rocky grave is our energy, passion and vitality. Apparently dead, but only sleeping. Genuine love will push away the rocks and liberate our hearts. "No really lover comes around it, to confront the deepest level with his own soul. So many emotions come to the surface, we have pushed for a lifetime: fear and panic, anger, hatred, jealousy, resentment, or an immense sadness. For who will open for the love, opens for the pain.

Is this the reason why many people say though, they are looking for love, but at the same time have such a fear? Each of us was hurt in any way. Perhaps we have not received as a child, what we needed so desperately, were mistreated, cheated later under circumstances that left and betrayed. At some point, then in the subconscious conviction imposed: The close relationship with a loved one = Pain = destruction. As a result we are now trying instinctively to situations and people go out of the way, remind us of past suffering. This makes our life a mix of escape, denial and eggshells. "Love relationships" are then affairs, in a nutshell, or a choice of partners identified, which excludes real close from the outset. Thus, we deny ourselves everything that fills life with magic: warmth, security and deep affection. If however you're getting into a real love relationship, you suddenly look exactly the experience in the face, because you have closed long ago love. Now not to flee, it means a real chance. It is as if Cupid's arrow would say: "Stay where you are. There is something to learn, teach and heal, "The eternal cycle of fear -. Pain - flight, we practice maybe even a lifetime is over. We have the opportunity to feel the terrible pain but again, this time they manage to but different from, and then let go forever.

What conditions need a spiritual partnership?

Honest commitment of both partners, which means that anyone from my heart says "yes" and does his best - for themselves, others and the relationship
The seclusion of your own heart and the possible fear of closeness to admit and make history consciously, which is one of them. Select the appropriate sense of f u, and the deep sincere desire to love (again!) to open. This means to the other show really, with all the known bugs and thousands of injuries.

Do not wait for de n Soul Mate

Each partner is a learning opportunity: who I am, what I want and what I want. Do not run it now, when things are difficult, but be sensitive to whether there really is a learning process proceeds, should be admitted or whether it is a horror without end. Not every relationship is permanent and the learning step can also mean to say no to a destructive experience, "no." Spiritual Partnership is not to remain in pathogenic situations. But to reject a man because he does not meet 100% of the ideal, is perhaps to exclude an important experience.
A resounding "no" to destruction in any form. Give people a clear rejection destructive mechanisms. -However, also the corresponding section in itself!
-Look through projections of its own "shadow". We tend to project displaced material on each other and accuse him then to do just that. Whatever excites us about him or disturb a correlation has as a theme within us and is also processed there. That does not mean to tolerate emotional or physical abuse. But ask in this case: where I was abusing myself?
-Good communication is the foundation of any relationship. Listen empathetically to go to another one and make sure that the other does the same with you
-Learn to love yourself and to make them happy
-Let go of what constrains, tortures, small holding or bored. Find out what your heart says yes, and really make it the most important goal in life to be happy. Love can be a huge mountain, a raging storm, a cool breeze, a relaxing bath. But in their vicinity is always fire. And this fire is the greatest gift. In a spiritual partnership is not our heart burn, but ballast, which no longer belongs to us. And do not give up. At some point you have understood your lessons so intense that the time is ripe to meet him

Making love the first time

The first time we will make love, and we are still starting in matters of sexual relations, it raises many questions: how to make love , foreplay, erection problems, and many more.

Here are some tips for the first time for beginners, so that their first sexual experience run as smoothly as possible:)

Making love the first time

One thing to know when one is beginning: the first time are often "disappointing" or even, failed, in the sense that it will be made ​​a big deal, and ultimately, the big day, it is too clumsy / inexperienced / stressed to whether the fireworks that were expected.

Do not worry, sex is like any more you practice the better you get, and it gets better. Because we are already more relaxed, and then because we know better do it. So do not panic if the first few times are not great.

If you have problems with erection or if it does not last long the first time do not panic! It's just stress you put too much pressure. It will improve as and when confidence replaces the stress.

Also be aware that for a girl, the first time can be quite painful: it is not death, it's like a small cut, but go easy. And do not be surprised or stress if it does not have an orgasm or not fun at all. If during the first penetration she hurt, stop and let her decide on. And even the next time, it takes time for girls to begin to have fun with sex.

So do not your first time to a sex hot as in porn videos you download, you'd probably be disappointed. It happens, but this is not the most common:)

For most people, the first time is not great. It does not matter, everyone passes by. You progress with experience, and take more and more fun.

Care, protection

The basic rule: if you are not tested or not faithful, always use a condom. You can have a sex with a beautiful babe, if we do not protect and has AIDS, is the caught even if it is perfect, and life ends there, stupidly.

The condom is a contraceptive that will prevent your sexual partner becomes pregnant in 99% of cases, but also to protect against diseases (AIDS and other STDs) most effective.

Then, if your relationship becomes serious and you are faithful to each other, both go to a STD test at the hospital, you can then stop the condom and choose the pill BUT ONLY if you stay faithful (unprotected infidelity is the best way to bring back life-threatening shit in his marriage, so be careful and responsible).

The erection

Very often (and, almost always) that beginners have sex a few small problems with erection. Do not worry, it's stress and nothing else.

Not need viagra, cialis no need, all you need is uninhibited, take being inexperienced (there goes all that way, including your partner): talk to it always helps . If it is experienced, it will be a delight in you take over and it will be very pleasant for you, and if it is not, you will blindly both by being attentive to one the other and it will be perfect for both.

The preliminary

We talk at length in the articles "the preliminary "and" preliminary advice "foreplay is very important. First of all because it is part of the pleasures of sex and they are very erotic, but also because they are designed to "prepare" the girl in the exciting sex: foreplay not allow have pain during sex and have fun.

Read on the forum (Lauren) 'Careful with your fingers. "

1) Watch out for nails, they must be short. And even if they are short, some women are sensitive enough to feel it, and when it's not really painful, is super bad at least for some. As the teeth for oral sex.
2) Because if the girl does not have abundant lubrication, the fact you touch the vagina will dry out even more.
So it may be well to toy with your fingers, but why must the girl is already in a state of excitement, or it crashes.
The best is indeed extended foreplay, or even stroking the clitoris or the area around, depending on the sensitivity of the lady. Beware the clitoris is not a button, if it does not work, it's useless to press harder. In any case if the girl is inexperienced you will not get anywhere by being pressed.

Fellatio

A basic thing is to never try to force it. Do not support him on the head, that sort of thing: it's degrading, humiliating and extremely uncomfortable, even disturbing, especially if the girl inexperience. It must be said that a girl sufficiently excited (through preliminary) will come naturally nine times out of 10, maybe not the first time, but when she is at ease and confident.

To know about oral sex: if it does not have mouth sores, you can do it without a condom is much better, both for her than for you.

The hairs

The hairs keep the sweat and bacteria, and cause a strong odor in sex. Not great.

All the guys do not, but it's more enjoyable for the girl, if not completely shave the pubic area and balls, you can at least "clearing" with small scissors to remove the largest. And then it may encourage your girlfriend to do the same if it does not already, it's still more fun and it makes games more enjoyable sex.

But if you are a beginner, it's your first time, do not take the head with it.

The penetration

Lubricate

It happens that sometimes a girl does not wet enough, or because it is like that (it depends on the girls) or because the preliminaries were botched: it is then necessary to remedy, without which the penetration will be painful for her and for you.

Saliva is usually sufficient, but sometimes it can cause urinary tract infections. You can also use the lubricant, but only intimate gels with water or silicone-based: Never oil (like olive oil) or Vaseline: Vaseline oil and poke holes in condoms.

The penetration

Read this article for detailed advice on the penetration , especially on a question often posed by beginners that stress, "how to find the hole")

Give him pleasure

Nothing more can a woman that a man who makes love "selfish", thinking only pleasure. Girls hate it, talk about their girlfriends and you're toast, cataloged bad move. To be a good time, i must therefore think of the pleasure. Moreover, the best way to have fun is to enjoy a girl , it makes unbridled in bed and makes you 100 times the same.

To give him pleasure, do not hesitate to innovate and take initiatives:

contact her to see if it's going (girls love to be spoken for love, not necessarily "dirty talk", but we communicate with them)
change positions, or even pause to resume early: do not believe that sex should be "all right", it can print some turns, speed changes, doing like this, it can last a long time and be very good. It can help to catch his breath, or even to get a proper erection.
Take matters into their hands: that girls like to be the guy who "dominates" (this is not to be violent, but to "direct"): do not be a soft.
Do not stop the jackhammer not: change the speed and angle of penetration: the girls we especially like "go in the corners."
Do not be too brutal: some positions may irritate or injure the vagina of the girl, which is quite fragile. Go ahead frankly, but so be attentive to his reactions, and do not insist if it hurts.

Ejaculation

Ejaculation usually means the end of sex: little boys are able to continue after. It is physiological, we simply can not, unless they have trained with special techniques, we will discuss in another article.

Whatever may have been to say, the technique of withdrawal (just before I retire to enjoy) is not a means of birth control at all: again, wear a condom or use the pill if you're a couple.

The facial

Even if your favorite movies in the facial is common, little girls really like: it is mostly an adventure of guy who tries to take pleasure in reproducing what he saw in porn . There's, however it girls who like cum facials: some love even that, the facial is a practice that affects certain fantasies, including SM ... If your partner is open, why not. But if you miss every other experience, it is best to wait a while to test this stuff.

Quantity and consistency of sperm

Many on the forum seem to pose the question of the amount of semen ejaculated and consistency of semen. The answer is simple: it depends on the people ... and days! Some sperm liquid and clear, in others it is more "lumpy" it depends on the concentration of sperm in the semen. As for quantity, sperm is produced continuously, but it makes sense that you ejaculate more sperm if you do not have sex for some time.

Namely: the amount of semen ejaculated does not influence your enjoyment or your girlfriend. The pleasure of sex is not only in ejaculation, although ejaculation comes with the male orgasm.

After orgasm

After so much action and fun, stay with her, let her snuggle against you. Some girls (mostly) like to talk right after. In general, men prefer to come to their senses ... or even sleep: a prime example of the fact that men and women are not made like that.

The last word

You are a beginner sex: do not take the head, do not put pressure, assume your inexperience calmly, it will come with time. Communicate with your partner, listen to him (very important) and above, use a condom as you are tested negative for all STDs.

Over time, you will have more experience and confidence, and your sex life will grow and flourish for your enjoyment. Then you can try new sex games, new sexual practices, described in the articles section of FTS sex.

In case of problems, difficulties, or if you just any questions, feel free to ask on the forum sex FTS : the other members, men and women will try to answer as best they can, without judge you or make you uncomfortable. Remember the key to great sex is to know and be able to speak freely, without fear or embarrassment.

Know breaking the exit routine every day!

On a daily basis, there are the usual little things that can be transformed into acts terribly glamorous sensual ... history to revive the flame of desire and pretend nothing to confirm that you are the sexy woman in his life!

1) Cooking scantily clad!

Make Meals on each day, we tend to think that there's nothing corny ... And yet, he put together his favorite food with gusto and good humor, all in undress, it's downright exciting ... Naked under your deck good cook, or garter belt or heels, the picture is very sensual ... Make the experience!

2) Put on your socks before him!

Women tend to hide, to be locked in the bathroom with double-turn to dress ... Error! Leave your door open and put on your stockings languorously ... This is even more torrid than striptease . Mr. gaped!

3) Play with your hair!

If you have long, feel free to brush long before him, with sweetness and sensuality , and take the opportunity to shake them regularly during the day ... If you have short, gently run your hand through your hair ... Simple movements and yet incredibly erotic!

4) He launched a few crude words!

During a day, you would certainly throw a few words or some sweet little nicknames ... Surprise him from time to time, in the enticing words with more raw in the daily acts of life. It can no longer be troubled!
5) in your home!

Whether you're cleaning, cooking, storage ... Put on some lively music and sexy, and do these chores, dancing! No doubt the scene will make euphoric! And besides, it'll lift your heart!

6) You masturbate in front of him!

in the morning or the afternoon quietly in your couch, sir certainly not very far ... When the love scene occurs, please show your excitement a little touching you ...

7) You undress in front of him at night ...

That evening, it's time to undress to put on your outfit the night ... Again, do not shut up, let him enjoy the daily gesture, and you go for lascivious postures that will make it crazy!

To break the routine, there are little things everyday occurrence, and you can turn into real moments of intense sensuality ... Dare, you will soon understand the whole point!

The favorite fantasy of men

To feed their libido, men fantasize about women and luscious Entrepreneurs but also a set of special circumstances their frolics. The favorite fantasy of men go to the nature and the marriage bed! Review details.

The men confessed their fantasies more easily than women! At least this is clear from the survey conducted by Ipso in France in 2005. 72% of men willing to admit their favorite fantasies against only 47% of women.

The fantasies of men # 1

In the hit parade of fantasies of men, 49% of the male sex said they would like to have sex with two women simultaneously. Immediately after, the men plébiscitent another fantasy that is particularly tempting to make love to a stranger (30% of responses). The exhibition of her having sex in front of an audience does not raise much enthusiasm in men as they evoke than 1% of cases.

The typical profile of the woman who haunts the fantasies of men is quite stereotyped: the erotic imagination of men focuses on the eyes and breasts of their conquests spooky (31%), buttocks (20%). Legs far behind with only 8% of the vote.

The instrumentalization of the act of love with the use of accessories also inspired a large number of men. 10% have tried relegating the fantasy experience, while 28% still dream but have to try one day. Exchange clubs yet high-profile does not raise against by a big interest in men: only 10% of men fantasize about love in the club with strangers (3% of men surveyed say they are already passed to the act).

Places to fantasies

Contrary to some misconceptions, fantasies favorite men are wise enough when it comes to vary the places to make love. In this sense, men and women converge on this point with an average of 49% for the fantasy of making love in nature (50% for men and 48% for women). The second place in fantasy is against all odds the bed in the house! 27% of men plébiscitent! The car (6%) and air (5%) did not seem as popular over there before! Suddenly, the business partners to fantasies you dream far from the cliché of the stewardess in undress: the beautiful young ladies from heaven harvest only 19% of the votes of men! Nurses and more generally the medical profession (doctors, masseuses ...) prance at the head of male fantasies (31% for nurses, masseuses, 28%). The TV host yet feature in the 80 fantasies dips below the 10% bar. In summary, the favorite fantasies of men put their antics in nature with one or two unknown women, nurses, preferably, however, protected from the eyes of others! We are far from love in an elevator or in a parking lot that often shows porn movies!

Did you know?

The same survey, women fantasize primarily on fire! The cliche of uniform always recipe in the erotic imagination of women!

The unusual places for sex

Even if the bed is generally seen by the couple as the number one place to make love, it is not the only one. From the beach to the elevator, lots of unusual places exist and can sometimes spice up your sex life.

Make love in an unusual place, spice up the sex life of any couple. While some seemed quite ordinary, other places are much more original and much more difficult to access. They are also often fantasies. But watch out, making love out of you, may ask you some problems.

At home

Of course, for those who do not want to take too much risk and not be caught during sex, there is also in its "home sweet home" a few places that you change the ordinary. It's not just the bathroom and shower. There is also the kitchen. Place rather "family", this rather unusual place to make love, is also a great place. There will always be a place where you sit or lie down, and more generally it is full of foods that the "cooking class" lives can slip over dinner at the flesh.

At the conquest of nature

According to a survey (made with men), the number one fantasy of men in France is to make love in nature. In a timber or in the countryside, making love in nature is a kind of homecoming. Blue skies, green pastures, flowers, smells ... can be found far from everything, like a return to nature, as if you were alone in the world.

It is love at the beach

Making love on the beach is seen as one of the most unusual when making love. Already because often the beach recalls the holiday, and therefore falls outside the context of everyday life. On vacation, couples are often love. And it must be said that bathing suit, facing the sunset with the waves, nothing is more romantic!

Public places

Many couples are tempted to have sex in a public place. The stress of being discovered and the fact of making love in a place that is really not made for it, causes an adrenaline rush that many love. Make love in an airplane is most often cited when asked to couples, what is the most unusual place to make love. But it's not just the plane. There are also the changing rooms (preferably lingerie department), elevators, film or sauna . But of course that says public place, said ... public. So it is better to properly calculate his stroke and avoid doing so at times of high traffic.

The car also is a favorite to make love. Of course, it is faced with beautiful scenery, not in the garage. Although not necessarily comfortable having sex in the car is one of the most cited fantasies. Often than not this fantasy is born of the fact that car advertising approaches the car and sex. And for others, it is ... Everyone who saw Titanic influence!

The office

While the office is often well separated from the staff and then place of intimacy, many French, would like to have sex in the office. Often the office is where precisely it forbids many things, where everything is built on the look and work. But it's also a place for all fantasies and all prohibited. This is however rather unusual place accessible for two co-workers as to bring your soul mate when she did not work, is almost impossible.

Attention

Of course, not exhibitionism. If you choose an unusual place to make love, stay quiet, because it is above all a moment to share with two and not with a theater full, for example.

If you choose to place a "nature" to take with you do something to put on the floor for comfort. For the cramped, be careful not to engage in acrobatic figures too can draw attention (if the fitting room moves too, could land the seller).

Next, we must above all know that having sex in a public place is totally prohibited and may cost you! Exhibitionism is indeed condemned by Article 222-32 of the Penal Code and sentenced up to one year imprisonment and a fine of € 15 000.

Did you know?

Italians like our neighbors favorite place to make love, the washing machine. According to users, when the thing would spin all its interest ... The garage would come in second place, followed by a classic: the car. Well placed as the shower, stairs to the locker rooms or buildings in gyms.

Divorce: Marriage Crisis

Divorce is the breaking of the marriage official. Separation differs between the de facto separation without legal consequence. The separation is recognized legally but leaves the marriage.

Today, more than a third of marriages end in divorce, the proportion tends to be closer to one in two major cities. To adapt to changes in society and the needs of individuals, divorce is evolving and new forms of disunity appear. Faced with the boom in divorce, recent regulations have been adopted to facilitate the process often unpleasant and reduce delays. The aim is to ease relations between husband and wife who use to divorce while maintaining the character of legal divorce.

History of divorce
The first law allowing spouses to break the marriage was created September 20, 1792. The divorce becomes a simple, no judge can be proclaimed without any reason. The general liberalism of the Act is denounced by the Conservatives. In 1804, the French Civil Code establishes conditions so restrictive that it is abandoned. On May 8, 1816, divorce was again removed by law Bonald. On July 27, 1884, divorce is again allowed, but only if specific errors such as adultery, excess, abuse and insults severe condemnation to an afflictive and infamous. In the following years, other legislation corrects certain provisions. The Act of April 2, 1941 prevents couples married less than three years of divorce. On July 11, 1975, Valery Giscard d'Estaing makes a thorough reform of the divorce.

Current legislation on divorce

Law 26 May 2004 shortened the divorce proceedings and corrects some errors in the 1975 Act. This law recognizes four cases of divorce: divorce by mutual consent, divorce by accepting the principle of marriage breakdown, divorce by irretrievable marriage and divorce for cause. This law promotes reconciliation between the spouses before the judge. The fault divorce is now faster. Today a single interview conciliation is now necessary, against two earlier. Another important point, in case of de facto separation, divorce is delivered faster. With the old law, had to wait six years for the divorce to be recognized. Now divorce may be asked to irretrievable marriage after two years of disruption of community life. The fault divorce has more interest since 1974, yet he was retained by the law of 2004, mainly to account for cases of domestic violence . The assistance of a lawyer is required for each spouse during the divorce proceedings. However, in case of divorce by mutual consent, the spouses may choose, by mutual agreement, a single lawyer.

Did you know?

The obligation of parents towards their children, which justifies the payment of this pension is independent of mistakes that led to divorce.

The white wedding, a romantic scam

In life, to get something, sometimes you have to make sacrifices! And here, when we talk about sacrifice, it is often difficult to live! The wedding white is a factor that could fix a lot! Many people adopt it while being aware of the sacrifices they have to bear!

Why a marriage?

The white wedding is a practice agreed to by two persons of opposite sexes. It aims to bring a legal couple. This means that two people accept their relationship vis-à-vis the law without the officer of the State-Civil knows the truth. They are theoretically declared husband and wife. However, in practice, this marriage is not consumed! In their daily lives, the couple is only for important reasons! There is no link love them! In fact, they agreed to marry for papers!

Note that it is very difficult to stay in a foreign country. And to reside there, it's still quite a story! As a result, immigrants choose to marry native-born. Finally, we need that person agrees to do it! Once the marriage took place, getting papers in order is easy!

Several foreigners have used this illegal practice to live legitimately abroad! To be more explicit, here's an example. Marie is a young African woman. She wants a career in the United States. Yet it has no knowledge in this country and it could not obtain a visa. To live there, she decides to marry an American. Thus, a residence in this country it is entitled.

The benefits of the marriage of

Once the person gets all the necessary papers to live in a foreign country, it offered several advantages: ease-Housing: If the person is in order, it will have no trouble finding a house where s 'house. The latter may sign a lease or sales contract as the case comes up. So more to worry about it! Social rights, and medical-professional in the field, a well validated residence allows the person to occupy a suitable position in a company. Several positive factors are to be listed for that purpose, but those mentioned are the key.

If we always took the case of Marie, it could achieve its ends through the white wedding. In addition, it will have no problem because it will be entitled to all benefits, medical, financial ... as well as residents of the country! It only remains to take advantage of what he offers his new life! Yet to deal with this situation is not always as easy as people think! Disadvantages are related to the practice "unfortunate"!

The disadvantages of the marriage of

As explained previously, perform the procedure requires a sacrifice. You can not really experience true happiness in being married to someone that does not even know! And we can not share an immense joy in the mere fact of living under the same household with a stranger! But once the decision is made and the fact is accomplished, there is nothing more to do! To this can be added as a sanction of the law if the marriage never seen white. We must constantly be on guard for his Entourage does not notice the reality! There are moments where the couple has to play the comedy to hide their lies!

Unfortunately for Mary, his ambition exceeded. It must survive this long! It can not find the man of her life that will love it and love it! It certainly win a lot of money but damage is under contract with a total stranger who happens to be her husband!

Imagine this unfortunate situation that destroys love! It's really incredible and yet this practice really exists! A person with a very strong character may resist this situation but for others, it would be torture!

Did you know?

Many people are deceived by the white wedding. While the person thinks he has found the love of her life, she realizes later that her husband was married for papers in order! It's really painful for the other party if she did not know before the intentions of the other!

The clitoris, the central organ of female sexual pleasure

The clitoris is the organ most sensitive female. Richly innervated, the clitoris is the female of the male penis as it has the ability to enter erect under the stimulation.

The clitoris is one of the female sexual organs. It is at the top of the labia minora and includes a projecting portion and a visible and invisible inner scope. Form and anatomy strongly resemble the penis in men.

The clitoris in anatomy

The clitoris is like an iceberg. The visible part is notoriously smaller than the underground! Indeed, the prominent button at the top of the labia minora is nothing compared to the submerged inside the body.

Overall, the prominence visible is only 0.4 to 1 cm in diameter. The visible clitoris is the conjunction of two roots of 10 cm around the vagina and urethra. It is highly innervated, which explains its very high sensitivity to the slightest stimulation. The clitoris is visible, initially during the fetal stage, the same as the male penis. And in fact, the clitoris as an adult looks exactly like a penis as it is made of a hollow body, a body sponge, a foreskin (or cap) and a tassel. The operation of the clitoris is rather similar to that of a penis. Stimulation causes an erection as well as opening and lubrication of the vagina, two signs of the growing excitement.

The clitoris in history

For years, the clitoris was considered the one and only body of female pleasure. According to a hypothesis put forward by Hippocrates, the clitoris was in charge of seed (the cum). Reproduction could not be done, it was believed that when the enjoyment was obtained. This belief has long been the force of law has resulted in the Middle Ages in a practice dubbed by the church: to rub the clitoris in a circular motion with scented oil for the woman becomes pregnant. This theory has brought joy to millions of Christians at the time but it proved inaccurate. Everybody knows today, the mechanism of fertility of a woman is in no way dependent on the fact that it is an orgasm.

The clitoris, a sesame for mating

Technically, clitoral stimulation opens the path of penetration. Such is the case in all mammals, including humans! In practice, the erection of the clitoris as a result of direct or indirect stimulation causes the opening and lubrication of the vagina. For the particular mammal is man and some primates, sexual intercourse is not conducted for the sole purpose of procreation. The pleasure is in the heart of the process. However, since the work of Masters and Johnson, it is recognized and proven that orgasm always involves the clitoris and that, whatever the type of stimulation (direct or indirect). The clitoris is right in the heart of the mechanism of the sexual act. S'entreprend its stimulation with fingers, lips, tongue ...

Did you know?

Theories that women are clitoral or vaginal largely exceeded. The clitoris is inseparable from the excitement and the female orgasm and in a sense, it is at the heart of female sexuality.

Cunnilingus: an intimate sexual practice

Cunnilingus which is nothing but the female oral sex is widely practiced by couples. It is to swallow the sex of a woman to raise her pleasure during foreplay.

Oral sex is a sexual practice whereby a man or a lesbian woman to stimulate a woman's clitoris, vulva and the vagina with your tongue, lips and mouth.
The oral sex is known and acclaimed for millenniums in the eastern and Asian civilizations. It is part of the Kama Sutra, for example as well as oral sex and between the achievement of the famous 69 position.
In the West, such as fellatio, cunnilingus has long been proscribed sexual practices since she had a vocation of fun while moral limited the act of love to procreation.

In preliminary or to orgasm

Also called Panty, zip or grazing grass, this practice is an excellent draft. It allows a woman to get into the fun without penetration. Generally, cunnilingus is used to prepare the woman to the act of love. Indeed, the rise névragique point of orgasm is for many women the clitoris. The kneading, suck and tease in all directions makes it possible to excite the woman that has the effect of producing natural lubricant. According to the talent (or) partner, the woman can easily reach orgasm just by leaving his partner to take possession of his genitals with the mouth.

This technique allows the blow for a woman to get multiple orgasms to follow (during foreplay and during penetration). Warning: some women do not support this practice very intrusive on their clitoris too sensitive. Some men do not accept to perform oral sex they consider too degrading and dirty.
As for oral sex, cunnilingus is in how to achieve agreement between the partners in a relationship of complicity in love and intimacy.

Cunnilingus in practice

A cunnulingus begins first by caresses of the hand. They are responsible for triggering the secretion of natural lubricant mixed with saliva which will allow the partner to kiss , lick and tickle the clitoris without pain his partner full of blood with excitement.

The women, the techniques may vary up to pleasure. It is the partner to judge by the reactions of women if it is on track and to identify preferences. The position of the most classic oral sex is missionary. The woman lies on her back, legs open to allow the man to better calibrate its support of the most comfortable. Position 69 is also often used to conduct a joint cunnilingus and fellatio.

In all cases, both partners must be part of a tender complicity to operate in a calm and voluptuousness.

Did you know?

Some women first orgasm through oral sex led lovingly.

Masturbation: a solitary pleasure essential to sexual fulfillment

Practice has always been synonymous with deviant immoral, masturbation is yet in the opinion of all sexologists a sexual practice essential. A discovery of his body better have fun.

Also called masturbation masturbation or masturbation, is to self-stimulate her erogenous zones, including his genitals alone. This practice dates back to ancient times. It is not proper to man, the great apes and also practice some other mammals evolved.

Masturbation has long been regarded as a deviant practice. The Catholic Church condemns masturbation today since it leads only pleasure and not procreation.

That said, masturbation is a very common practice in men and relatively less common in women. It usually starts at age 2 years when the child becomes aware of his body and the fact that there is a difference between a boy and a girl. Generally, very young children leave the practice gradually caught up by the discovery of the world.
It was not until adolescence that masturbation resurfaced this time in a more sexual. The teenager from this time not in the discovery of his body but to discover the pleasure he can feel with his body.

Masturbation in figures

According to various surveys conducted by scientists or in a public survey on teens via the Internet, over 80% of boys have already masturbated to ejaculation. They usually start at the age of 12 years, and accelerate the pace at the age of 14 or 15 years. The frequency at this age can reach 2 to 3 times a day.
Later, when the boy begins to maintain a sexual relationship followed, the frequency of masturbation less frequent. For many young men, masturbation can satisfy a need to ejaculate while for others it allows to de-stress before an exam or an important meeting, a sporting event.
As age advances and masturbation is gaining control. A simple purge required, plus experience of control of the erection for better satisfy their partner. In this case, masturbation can take up to one hour with changes of pace perfectly controlled.

In women, the figures on masturbation are much less available. In the survey on sexual behavior in France in 1993, 84% of men and 51% of women said they masturbated.
According to the New Hit Report published in 2002, 82% of women using masturbation to reach orgasm. According to She re Hit, the penetrative sex would be less effective in reaching orgasm since on average, a self-direct stimulation of the clitoris by a woman reaches 95% penetration of success while there comes a time on three.

Masturbation in practice

In practice, masturbation in men is by simple caresses the penis, testicles and the entire genital area. Once the erection is obtained, the rise of the pleasure obtained by a pressure effect on the penis slid.

In women, clitoral stimulation with your fingers is the main way of doing business. Clitoral masturbation can also be achieved with more sophisticated devices such as vibrators. The dildo is used to stimulate the vagina in parallel with clitoral stimulation.

Did you know?

For a long time, masturbation in France and Quebec was supposed to deafen those who practiced it. In the U.S., they said it made ​​him blind.

What to do after a first date?

So you've taken the first difficult step: meeting with the other and the passage of the dreaded first date. And it was a success, phew! Yes but now, now what? How to behave? Read these valuable tips and you will know what to do!

Remain calm ...

Do not panic! The first meeting went well, so stay calm. We must move slowly and not rush anything. Love is often a history of patience. Consider the situation: you like it really? Do you really want to see him again? A relationship with him is it possible? Always take a step back after a first meeting, where you can quickly become euphoric, with a simple "love at first sight" or a strong attraction produced by the physical, through the temporary euphoria ... This prevents us from seeing clearly and to be realistic. Do not get carried away a bit and analyze the evening! Also take notice of your friends.

The famous phone call!

Do I remember? Wait for him to do? After how long can I contact him? All these questions run through your mind and you turlupinent ... How do I know if we take the right decision? Well, let me tell you, it's impossible! There is no rule: we must listen to his desire. Your desire is to call it? Do it! Keep it simple and clear in what you want. Do not play cat and mouse. This kind of game often ends up misunderstandings that must be clarified when it is still possible to do so.

How long?

Yes, not easy to pursue a successful first meeting. We often want to do it again right away and another flood of messages, text messages and phone calls immediately. So when can we do? There is no time prescribed. But do not be too urgent. Even if you wait four or five days, he will not have time to forget you for a family with another woman. But against, do not wait too long either. A phone call two months would probably not ideal. The solution? A small text message two or three days later to report that the evening you Plue. Then offer another outlet a few days later. Proceed in small steps!

Radio silence ...

You wait until you call and the phone does not ring? Do not worry! This may be a reserved boy who does not dare to do so. And if he was afraid of you rushing? Perhaps he is waiting for your call? Do not panic: silence can be interpreted in several ways. Yes, for sure, it may be that you do not like the gentleman. It happens ... But it is also possible that this is the opposite! And in this case, the other may fear to the idea that you are good! Those with whom he wants to establish a solid relationship. The best way to find out is to occur. Thus, no doubt: you will be set.

An appointment original!

For your second face to face, try different from the first time. A trip to the movies or the theater followed by drinks in a bar or a cafe, a restaurant meal, a walk during the day, visiting an exhibition ... Vary the ideas! This is the best way to get to know a person. By discovering what it likes to or not, how it behaves in a particular situation ... It is sort of mini-tests very revealing. By cons, avoid trips that do not talk.

It takes time ...

Think that after this second hot date, there will be another and so on ... Finally, if every time, all goes well. Be patient and not rush anything. Thus, it will be easier to give a second chance to the other if you do not immediately ignite. Love at first sight is not systematic, far from it. A relationship blossomed and solid builds gradually over time. And if the person you like, even if only a little, let him know. Tell him you enjoy his company. And if it is reciprocal, perhaps your mutual pleasure will turn into a beautiful love story ...

How to seduce a man ... the answer!

How can we ensure that all eyes of men look to you? How to stir up their desire to become an object of desire? You dream of having a secret all to your feet ... With Bloc.com, you will turn you into an irresistible femme fatale in just 5 steps!

The dream ...

One of the great secrets of a femme fatale is the dreams she has ... Instilling the desire when we won the other is important! With a simple look, a little word, a gesture innocuous, you want to give you. But to do this, you must give the impression to men that we know what they want ... and make them believe that you are the only one who can offer it! And that's where the dream becomes reality. And if that was the secret of seduction? We'll have to make you an ideal image for the one you'll win. It must be identified to get there. Or, just guessing. Thus, the target man will feel confident and sure of himself.

Knowing your identity!

We must first know yourself and really know who you are to stand out compared to others. Thus, you can claim unique and special. Love you! It is at this point that you can flourish in a relationship and seduce each other.

Do you trust!

Self-confidence is acquired over time and is never spontaneous. Do not avoid contact with someone who attracts you, thinking that it is impossible or doomed to failure. Instead, make contact. And if it does not work, pull into the consequences and analyze it. Thus, you can change your attitude and optimize it for next time. Never think in terms of failure!

Privacy: lift the veil a little ...

Once your privacy is built, logically you would like to share. This will tell you so in the game of seduction. Try to share (without necessarily giving all) certain thoughts, feelings, emotions, beliefs ... but also your dreams , and of course your fantasies!

Essential emotional intelligence

Each emotion is preparing to act a certain way. So, rather than to flee their emotions, better learn to use them intelligently! We must overcome his fears in order to be comfortable and very relaxed in order to seduce the other. Able to adapt to any situation very quickly is a major asset that saves time ... but also of conquest! Be positive no matter what, stay natural (either you like it as you are, this is not the case and do you no good to invent a character). You must also be attentive to your partner and your interest in what he says (it's better to bounce on a subject). Finally, you can set off a light, but the first physical contact: touching the arm, touch the hand or leg ...

And here are some ideas of what to do to become a seasoned seductress!

Love is not math

Love is not mathematics. This again shows the results of the survey about unconditional love that was completed by over 2300 visitors to the websites of the Times and the NCRV.

Love is not mathematics. This again shows the results of the survey about unconditional love that was completed by over 2300 visitors to the websites of the Times and the NCRV.

On the one hand, the unconditional love embraced by the survey participants. As many as 80 percent of respondents believe that a relationship where the partners love each other unconditionally most likely to succeed. Moreover, almost two thirds feel that an unconditionally loving partner helps you to accept yourself as you are and bring out the best in you.

These positive results are not caused by a lack of life experience of the younger Internet generation. Six of the ten participants was 40-plus. They have an average of three permanent relationships. 60 percent are married or living together. More than 1,500 women completed the survey and about 800 men.

The flip side of unconditional love to know the participants. 50 percent believe that unconditional love can be harmful to your relationship because you sometimes need to adjust the other rather than accept. Moreover, 87 percent think it's more important each well and weaknesses realistically to face, than to blindly love one another.

Participants watch make love to blame any of their own misfortune. 60 percent believe that unconditional love only works if you take your own happiness in hand, while only one in three people believe that true love is a guarantee for happiness. There is no majority can be found for the proposition that vacillating love your partner uncertain and the worst in you brings.

A cynic could say that the results are meaningless. The same people who say that the unconditional love that a relationship gives the best chance of success, also indicate that this form of love can be harmful to your relationship because you have to accept everything else is not.

But this marked the Danish physicist Niels Bohr, all of the following: "The opposite of a fact is falsehood, but the opposite of a profound truth may be an equally profound truth."

Premature ejaculation and its causes: the evil male ...

Premature ejaculation is still a taboo subject. However, this inability to control sexual arousal and delaying orgasm affect more than 37% of men.

Premature ejaculation: definition

Premature ejaculation, also known as premature ejaculation, is a phenomenon by which man can not control his sexual arousal. He can not delay his ejaculation and orgasm. This would affect more than 37% of men, although the subject remains taboo. The problem of premature ejaculation is not a matter of time. Ejaculation can be done very quickly and not be premature if it was the desire of man that things are going well. Early ejaculation is that when it occurs without man's decision to "let go".

Premature ejaculation is not a disease, but it hurts ...

From a physiological point of view, everything works very well in men undergoing a premature ejaculation. It would even, in terms of nature, a "reproductive" ideal. Excitable and able to spread his seed in record time, it represents the perfect image of the male ... But if premature ejaculation is a problem, because it falls within the context of a relationship to another . The man feels frustrated, angry at not being able to delay his orgasm to share the pleasure with his or her partner. Often, men with premature ejaculation have a sense of failure and devalued. They may even sink into depression . The phenomenon is even more difficult as the subject remains taboo and that few men dare to talk about it.

Primary and secondary premature ejaculation

There are generally primary and secondary premature ejaculation. If it is primary premature ejaculation has always been present from the beginning of sexuality. By cons, if it occurs after a period without any problems, premature ejaculation is called secondary. However, it is sometimes difficult to differentiate the two. Indeed, some men may experience a long period of not controlling their level of sexual excitement, without this problem. Premature ejaculation will be diagnosed as soon as the disturbing phenomenon of sexuality and well-being of man.

The special case of the first reports

In the vast majority of cases, the discovery of sexuality with a partner causes a few episodes of premature ejaculation. Premature ejaculation at first intercourse is a phenomenon quite common, which should not worry. Indeed, the overwhelming excitement and apprehension related to this episode and the discovery of new sensations can be very disturbing. In addition, the control of sexual arousal requires a thorough knowledge of his own body and its sensations, which comes naturally with experience.

The causes of rapid ejaculation

There may be predisposed to premature ejaculation. Some researchers emphasize the role of brain neurotransmitters and a hereditary determinism. But studies are still ongoing. In all cases, we know that stress and anxiety play a major role in premature ejaculation. The fear of not being up to par, not to satisfy the partner is also very disturbing. In addition, the intense practice of masturbation fast, whose goal is simply to ejaculate, is singled out. Masturbation should relearn a more "exploratory" slower, allowing a better understanding of all facets of pleasure even before ejaculation ... For it is the experience that comes control of sexual arousal

What triggers the orgasm?

Unpredictable and fragile, the female orgasm is more mysterious than that of men. Less "mechanical", it is subject to many emotional parameters that can block it. Self-esteem, letting go, trust in others ... Here are some keys to better surrender.



Fast or slow, intense or casual, easy or arduous ... The female orgasm is an enjoyment fragile, unpredictable, which arises when we least expect it, or eclipsed, despite promising beginnings. Why is it more difficult for women than for men? Because the concerns of men rely more on desire than on pleasure rather than "will I enjoy? "But" will I bend? ". Women know they, that their pleasure is independent of their desire. However, far from easy recipes, you can try to understand and to remove blockages.

Self-esteem

This self-confidence which helps to live well every day is essential for access to the female orgasm. About sexuality, it is through faith in his body, the image that it returns. Nothing to do with a perfect body: on the contrary, the obsession with perfection can create an internal conflict, such as fear to appear naked, refusing to be caressed in certain areas or control of its image during sex ... The measurements, breast shape or size of the thighs have nothing to do with the inner certainty that the body has the ability to give and receive pleasure.

Have this inner feeling of security is to stop thinking in terms of orgasm challenge, learn to enjoy at their own pace, not to focus on the pleasure of the partner, not wait until ours is exclusively dependent on his own; it's finally accept that orgasm is the natural expression of sexual pleasure that belongs to you. Self-confidence, it's still guilt away from the sight of past centuries - "Women have no honest pleasure" - and implicit injunctions of ours - "Enjoyment mandatory in all positions." No one knows better that every woman with whom, when and how she wants to make love. "To enjoy more than the neighbor, fantasizing over his colleague or have more lovers than his girlfriend can not lead us to an impasse," says Alain Héril the sex therapist.

Letting go

For many women, pleasure is disturbing - psychically, the penetration is never trivial. They continue to alternate between penis envy and fear of intrusion. Depending on the day, different times, these feelings come and go. "If the pleasure is expected and even claimed, ahead of analyst Catherine White (author of Women's sexuality is not the magazines (La Martiniere, 2004)), it continues to worry about the unconscious women, as they can fear of invasion and doubt their ability to host sex rights. "

In this concern is compounded by being submerged, washed away by orgasm, which is not for nothing does denominated "little death." This pleasure is not likely he not swallow them up? Why do not they come to let go to listen to that little voice that guides them to orgasm? Because they fear that this voice does not reveal things not very agreeable to themselves, a little disgusting, even? Or it may make them utter obscenities that come out of their mouth like toads escaping the lips of nasty girls in fairy tales? Women are afraid to discover that their pleasure is unfaithful to what they believe and want to be. Drop these unconscious fears is possible when the brain can disconnect to focus on the sensations.

FIRST SEX

Human sexuality is very complex and the information on this sometimes difficult to find. For your first time is a very good memory, a minimum of preparation is necessary.

Human sexuality is very complex, and little concrete information circulating on the implementation of the report. So it is natural to feel apprehension before doing anything a bit mysterious, where another will experience the privacy, and judge, and on which it relies heavily for his happiness and balance in her life. Also, for reassurance, a minimum of preparation is necessary so that conditions are favorable, material and psychological experience a great attraction and affection for someone does not pine needles to prick the buttocks, the stones entering the back of the dashboard caught the legs ... and fun to fly! But the warm sand, the bright stars in the sky or a good bed in a room alone will not offset the selfishness of dragger who thinks only pull his shot and left unsatisfied, or the beauty who loves that is the caress, but left to fend for the rest.

Learning

In sexuality, many adults have memories of walking hand in hand, games of infinitely caresses Renewed Of flirtations and tender confidences. We must have the will to live slowly sensuality, to feed and enrich it progressively. While sexual intercourse is the development of a personal quest, not a hygienic gymnastics or an act done just disappointing to be like others.

As for pleasure, knowledge of its capabilities is not essential, but helps them feel more confident to share with each other. Masturbation is an opportunity for a lot of that learning.

Adventure

For the first report, it launches into the unknown, and we do not know in advance everything that this first step will lead. It is sometimes perfect, sometimes medium, sometimes zero. Often girls and boys are disappointed not to have more, or even as much fun as their own games, but it takes time to adjust to each other and the best use of new opportunities in his body contact one another. There is nothing unusual: the meeting of two histories and two different projects requires adjustments. But even unsatisfactory, the first report is a step that opens the horizons of human adult sexual adventure.

Preliminary advice

Preliminaries: passage sometimes (often?) Hommes.Trop neglected by men see them as optional or as a chore, while others do not take enough time for them to botch and move on ...

Yet, preliminary is not just to please the woman.

Little reminder on preliminary information and advice.

Why foreplay?

When asked "why women love they / do they require the preliminaries? "The answer is" Because they have no choice! ".
Indeed, sexual arousal does not work the same way men and women. So much for how it is caused, for its usefulness and its effects ...

In humans, the excitation is mainly caused by visual stimuli: a plunging neckline, a mini skirt, can excite a man. The women are only rarely excited by the sight of an intimate part of man. (A small percentage of women are in the order of 1%)

In humans, the excitement is almost instantaneous ... The desire comes from a sudden, you start to bend, and presto, we are ready to take action. In women, the excitement is long to climb (do not confuse excitement and desire for sex), and requires different stimuli: ambient sound (music, murmurs, ...), touch (hugs, ...) and many others.

The excitement is important for women. Without excitement, it does not take pleasure. The report is even mostly painful. The excitement was crucial because it helps lubricate the vagina, making it more elastic ...

You should know that the "hot" for preliminary (when you work with your fingers or your tongue: p), ideally, should last 10 minutes or more (there is nothing mandatory, but it just better for your partner) so that her vagina is really ready for a more advanced. In other words, if you neglect the preliminaries, ask yourself if your partner takes the pleasure she should / could do if you were less sloppy.

In short, preliminary, it is good, eat it:)

Foreplay to excite / make you want sex

According to women is more or less hard.
One might say, if we were not gentlemen, that the biggest sex organ of the woman is his whole body - especially, his skin ...
A woman who begins to be excited, becomes very sensitive to the touch when it wants to make love . That's why they need lots of hugs ...

Another thing to know: they are very sensitive to the sound of the voice (women can receive up to 6 tones of voice, while men do not generally receive 3 to 4) and are also very sensitive to the words chosen .

When he tells a story, a woman tends to represent in his mind with images (that's why a lot of women enjoy erotic literature, more than the porn movies that appeal to men because that if they are visual).

A technique to use is to tell him what you make it ... but do not do it right now, just wait for it to have time to think.
Women like what is called "anticipation." Basically, it is necessary to ensure that they imagine what will follow ... give them time to think, so do not go too fast ...

Of preliminary preparation for the sex

Rather than long and tedious explanation, here is an example of preliminary. See this as a suggested menu, rather than a procedure absolutely "Thin I forgot step # 12! ". Remember, sex is (as seduction) an art, not mechanics.

Place yourself in a comfortable position that allows you to use your tongue and your hands together.

Keep in mind that you must be gentle caresses, when it comes to her vulva, wet: the stroking or fingering "dry" is unpleasant for the girl, or even downright painful. And even if wet, it is necessary to lubricate the area, so feel free to use your saliva - but please, forget the methods "porn-style" did not spit on it directly, do it discreetly ... unless she likes it, but it does not matter.

You could for example make him oral sex, use your fingers, accessories, or 3, as long as you take both fun to "play" as well.

Finally some details:

all women are not comfortable with cunnilingus. It is therefore important, very important that they are totally relaxed. l do not think that you do not like him a cunnilingus and you force yourself. Put it in trust, make small "hmmm" to show that you value, etc ... If she does not like the cunnilingus, stimulate her clitoris with your fingers, putting saliva (it has to be always well wet, sorry if I repeat much of it but it's important) .7
Do not neglect his other erogenous zones: her breasts, buttocks, neck, all erogenous sensitive parts of her body and may be subject to your attention during the preliminary (and, obviously, after).

Voila, I hope it will help to show more care and creativity in your sexual games. Ladies will not forget to thank me ^ ^

Vaginal discharge

It's my imagination, or do I have more vaginal discharge now?

It's not your imagination! During pregnancy, it is quite normal to have increased vaginal discharge. In most cases, the causes are benign and normal. These losses are certainly notice that you just vaginal discharge, discharge or loss creamy, odorless. They are the result of increased blood flow to the vagina. These losses are certainly not different from what you knew before pregnancy, they are just more abundant.

In some women, these losses increase with the approach of work, and they can be very abundant. Indeed, increased losses or thickening may be signs of an imminent delivery. You will also notice a big loss when the mucus plug (which closes the cervix) will fall, possibly before the start of work.

How to manage these losses?

Remember though that this is an inconvenience passengers that accompany pregnancy, and keep good hygiene by following these tips:
• Stay fresh and clean,
• Wear cotton underwear,
• Avoid tights or pants made of nylon,
• Avoid perfumes and deodorant soaps,
• If necessary, use sanitary pads to absorb the fluid, rather than tampons.
• Do not douche. The doctors strongly advise against these enemas in pregnancy: in rare cases, they can introduce air through the vagina into the bloodstream and cause serious complications.

The vaginal discharge can they indicate something more serious?

If your losses change appearance, pay attention to them. If they are smelly, thick, yellowish or greenish, they itch or burn you, it may be a yeast infection or another infection. Contact your doctor, because you have to treat the infection before delivery.

You should also contact your gynecologist if you notice any loss brownish, without bleeding.

How to avoid a vaginal infection?

There is no foolproof method, but these tips can reduce the risk:

• Wash your hands thoroughly before touching your vagina, and always wipe carefully from front to back after using the toilet.
• Eat a yogurt a day: it contains a probiotic called lactobacillus acidophilus which fights infection.

• Lower doses of refined sugars in your diet.

When is the right time for sex? - The first time with the date - not rush or wait?

When is the right time for sexual intercourse with new partners depends primarily on how old you are and what emotions play in it.
If one is only 18 years old and still a virgin, many women choose to first wait until you're in a committed relationship, and even then you will not want to rush to, because the idea of ​​"be the first time must be something very special! "still in the minds of a young woman is given.
If you are 39 years old of course it may be sufficient to wait a month or two making love.

Some do, some less.

One should therefore not be surprised if the man is surprised by the second date, that the woman only gives a quick kiss goodbye, rather than invite him still in her apartment.
He probably has been spoiled by other women no more lived and why he reacts confused that suddenly he is denied the pleasure.
  But do not worry, there is evidence of interest and the wife is amazed, because this man is likely to call again!
It's not too nice to be called a "loose woman" too.
Because women can look forward only when he lies down for the next time a strategy rightly, as he can seduce her, instead of looking out for one another.
As long as you can wriggle man, increases the desire of the man and can only stir up the passion when the woman finally has to use its own particular time sex with him.