Loud liars

Are women who moan during sex, just actresses? GLAMOUR columnist Vanessa Schwake pleads for more noise during sex - but only if he is sincere

Women cry in bed only with relish, to whip the man? That would be a pity!

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That women fake orgasms, is no secret. I confirm that not only my friends but also many Sexstudien. A recent study conducted for the feminine desire and behavior, the University of Central Lancashire in Great Britain - and also made me groan. With astonishment. Because they delivered the sad result: "The pleasurable noises during sex women give of themselves, are usually not caused by her orgasm."
Yes, but why the ladies moan then? According to the study, the sounds of pleasure are often launched to accompany the climax of the sexual partner. In plain language this means: The woman exults and panting like crazy to support their loved ones to him verbally and screaming across the finish line. That's meant nice and some sexy breaths into the ear of the other quite a good stimulant, but was far from the ladies about the "I purr like a kitten, so the man thinks, I stand totally on his moves" scenario be away?
That the 71 study participants clearly see differently. They stated that they usually come during foreplay to orgasm (immerhin!), but cancel out the groans of the performance of the partner. The researchers explain this behavior: ". For the ladies, the men manipulate to their advantage" I wonder: Where exactly is my advantage if I was cheating with a guy during sex, that I experience just wonderful highs, although my orgasm is long gone? Also the fact that university professors have an answer: "Women try to match an idealized scheme for sex." All in the faith: Woman moaning lustfully = working woman, with the one (s) can easily have fun. For what man wants a bed partner with orgasm problems?
How can a grown woman agreed to such a theater? Outstanding acting skills between the sheets while the men give the feeling of a great pike to be, but the sexual pleasure of the lady to bring it a step further.
Then I saw who had participated in the Sexstudie: women with an average age of 22 years. Perhaps the majority of the surveyed 71 girls overheard the women who still have not figured out how to get to orgasm during sex. And who - for whatever reason - to believe that the climax of the man was in the process said the main goal. Unfortunately, yes you read and hear all too often, that many women during the actual act never or only rarely come to orgasm and that this was perfectly normal. Say: No need to initiate remedial action, if it's the other does not work? Oh yes! A manually or orally induced orgasm during foreplay is all well and good, but also the actual act but the ladies should get their money.
So, ladies: Save the hot air during sex and get the stamina prefer to tell your partner about your favorite sexual positions, and handles requests to. And then you put together a new goal: to climb the peak of pleasure together, and to be moaning about the bet.