To really love

Love is one of the fundamental traits of human beings. To love properly, however, is an art, which are yet to be learned and discovered to be new for every day. Under the right ones in this context is not understood to be in love. Rather, this text of real love is dedicated within a partnership. Read here to learn how you can really love and what you have to pay attention.

Love everyday
First of all, it is important to properly love, that you let your partner know that even in everyday life. One may of everyday attention and sometimes tense relationship with the partner. These loads may tear the bond of relationship and love is not. Give your own partner, therefore, the attention that this deserves. This can be a small gift or a company, which is planned and spontaneous, with which this is surprising. Furthermore, it is important to do regularly is also confident, how much does one of the partners. Only it is also possible that this insight is openly shown. Besides the emotional love, which is probably the most central aspect of the right love, the physical level also plays a crucial role.

Love at sexual love

But how does one really loves to sexual level? First, one should also regularly set new accents. In this context, it is helpful if you know what exactly are the preferences of the partner. For example, are experimenting with role play and related accessories, find out which, ideally, both sides desire increase. But there are also special ground rules for both sides within the meaning of true love must pay attention to sexual level. For the man an audition may usually only appear unnecessary and exhausting. Take the time to do yet, since the excitation curve of the women usually much slower increases. Hasty attacks may lead to success in the short term, long term care but only for a decrease in sexual activities, what love really is compatible with the non-turn.
You should also try to know the woman very well, so you can estimate what these likes and dislikes. But even at their own weaknesses can be worked accordingly. One should also exercise prior review or not flinch, which are used to improve technique or stamina. Only in this way is also a true lover, the woman who can surprise even years later. Women should speak out clearly once again, if something did not fit.
Thus, many women love the game go through, without even really fun to win from this. With the right ones, this has only superficially imitate something, because the partner becomes quasi lied. But in the long run, such behavior is a potential danger for the whole partnership dar. Furthermore, the woman should also be active even once, the man so to speak seduce and show him the sense of a true love, one that still finds attractive.

My husband masturbates

The question:

We have been together for 17 years, my man has never been a sex goddess and I've made. Our sex is increasingly rare. It turns out that there are some nights I went to bed after him. I could not get to sleep but I tried. I felt that my husband looked at me, checked that I was asleep and he turned his back to masturbate. I feel bad, ugly and I do not know what to do. Since the beginning of our relationship, I ask him to go see a specialist because I think it's a premature ejaculator but he never did. In 17 years together, I can count on the fingers of one hand the times I really enjoyed with my man. What can we do? Uobit

The response of Alain Héril
Sex therapist

The problem you pose is in the range of relational and sexual problems than the mere fact of your husband. Obviously the desire is not flowing between you and this since the beginning of your relationship. The fact that your husband masturbates to you suggests that his need for sex is present but can not make it happen with you. If you wanted to do at all, he would secretly without you aware of his solitary activities! Here he is with you and "something in him" should know that you are fully aware of what is happening. Presumably you are not a sufficient "object of fantasy" for him ... or that you are too much and it inhibits it.

In any case, it seems to me that consultation with a specialist recommended that you have rightly should be two. This would put all that clutter and puts you in pain and able to analyze it in order to begin to find solutions. Because they exist but it is necessary to enable a true reflection on sexuality in your marriage and you can not be the only one to think! The work must be done two to be effective.

You live together depuis17 years with so little pleasure it is time to reverse the trend to give your partner the chance to enter a relationship where desire and its realization can find their rightful place ... finally!

Pregnant or not? - If love was a success - tips for women

It is not yet so far, which one is "overdue".
Still pushing himself in some women already on the suspicion that the last night of love is not without consequences.
- There's such a weird feeling. -
Often rumored and over again is the familiar morning sickness.
She is on the hormone "human chorionic gonadotropin" HCG called short due.
Most women respond immediately after getting up before the cycle has stabilized properly see, sensitive to them.
If you vomit frequently, however, it is advisable to consult a doctor.
Thanks also to the change in hormone levels is now slightly darker color of the nipples. As even small irregularities in the courts of warts, this indicates a current pregnancy.
The pull in the abdomen can be easily explained by the slight but steady growth of the uterus, which is obviously better supplied with blood now.
Usually this is an unusual feeling other than that which we know from the normal period ago.
The frequent urination also lead many returned to the growth of the uterus. In fact, the rising levels of estrogen is responsible.
Already at a time in which there is still no detectable increase, it leads to a relaxation of the muscles. As a result, the urethra is irritated more than usual. Similarly, the increase has now produced progesterone relaxing effect on the bladder muscles.
The body of a pregnant woman is now working flat out on the exhausting task ahead. The placenta must be built, joints, connective tissues and muscles are relaxed. No wonder, then, if the expectant mother is now frequently fatigued and tired.
You should sleep without feeling guilty about becoming a more and make the routine much more smoothly.
The often-cited peculiar tendencies to strange combinations of food, unfortunately, the reality must be assigned.
Here too, the HCG is already mentioned responsible.
Conspicuous desire for pickles are not only in the fable, but also in real pregnancy observed.
Some dislikes are due to the self-protecting the body from the food that could be incompatible for an infant.
Not surprisingly, the tension in the breasts, the set, because the milk glands are prepared for their task of breastfeeding.
If one finds some or several of these signs in yourself, you should do a pregnancy test. Only then one can certainly adjust to the next family member.