When women come too soon

Why a premature female orgasm can be a Sexproblem. Plus: five proposals for solutions 

 USER/"> "For 99 percent of the people must sound pretty ironic, but I have the problem that I have come too early to orgasm! Yes, actually I do! As a woman! Many may think 'but the spins, but it is edible!" But it's almost worse than having an orgasm. "
You read that right: It's not about the well-known problem that some men take their pleasure in sex too soon to express, but contrary to the phenomenon. Also, women (like those just quoted from an Internet platform "Cassongas") may have a premature orgasm.

 

A woman who comes to a climax too quickly is not a problem? But!

They wonder why this should now be a Sexproblem? The ladies should be happy but if they "come" so easily. One might think. But we are talking about women who arrive as fast (and usually so intense) to highlight that after the oven is off. Why? They are subsequently have extremely sensitive, so they enjoy no longer be able to touch or even pain. Or quite simply they have no more desire.

"Normal sex is for me only if I did not let me fall"

Userin "Cassongas" describes it this way. "The problem is that I immediately orgasm come as soon as he did in the step touches or want to enter me as my body after an orgasm, but is very sensitive to pain, can not continue our normal sex. For me only if I let myself fall NOT (and a distraction on rusty bicycles and manure so'n think ...). It's superfrustrierend! "
Similarly, for the partners of the early-to-Come gutters. "MA" reports from sex with his wife: ". After the first orgasm is the end times then this is just like a man not particularly potent Another orgasm is possible again only after hours," and asks for advice GLAMOUR.DE has a few ideas to solve the problem without imagination rusty bikes:

What can you do if the woman is having sex too quickly? Five solutions
The pre-sequel to make
If the woman already during foreplay - for example by oral sex - has an orgasm, and then can not go on, you should try to keep the warm-up period as short as possible and instead a dranzuhängen injury time. So the man during the actual act of "come" and the woman in line.
Men use knowledge
Many men go to sex position, when they realize that they are on the home straight. This strategy could also try out women to delay the climax.
Avoid direct stimulation
Positions in which the clitoris is not automatically mitstimuliert by the friction body (such as doggy style), can help to delay the climax of the lady.
Take a break
If the woman because of overstimulation else fails, you can pause, in which one snuggles for example only, bridging the time until it is again "ready".
Manual and oral alternatives
Sexual intercourse is not possible eg due to pain, the lady her lover with a blowjob can also prepare by hand or highlights.

When is the right time for sex? - The first time with the date - not rush or wait?

When is the right time for sexual intercourse with new partners depends primarily on how old you are and what emotions play in it.
If one is only 18 years old and still a virgin, many women choose to first wait until you're in a committed relationship, and even then you will not want to rush to, because the idea of ​​"be the first time must be something very special! "still in the minds of a young woman is given.
If you are 39 years old of course it may be sufficient to wait a month or two making love.

Some do, some less.

One should therefore not be surprised if the man is surprised by the second date, that the woman only gives a quick kiss goodbye, rather than invite him still in her apartment.
He probably has been spoiled by other women no more lived and why he reacts confused that suddenly he is denied the pleasure.
  But do not worry, there is evidence of interest and the wife is amazed, because this man is likely to call again!
It's not too nice to be called a "loose woman" too.
Because women can look forward only when he lies down for the next time a strategy rightly, as he can seduce her, instead of looking out for one another.
As long as you can wriggle man, increases the desire of the man and can only stir up the passion when the woman finally has to use its own particular time sex with him.

Finally 40! Finally, great sex!

Sex is getting better with age! How do we know? From pleasurable experience. Five misconceptions about women and sex from 40 - and why they are utter nonsense.

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Prejudice 1: women over 40 have less desire for sex

Quite wrong. A study of the Free University of Berlin under 521 women 50-70 shows that women continue to old age and pleasurable orgasm. That surprises me a bit. The other day a friend called me (48), and about her latest lover, a winery (44) from Austria. "Hey, I have never had such hot sex," she said. Literally. I gulped. So naked and pure I could not have possibly expressed.

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But why not? Sexual health is when the joy triumphs over shame. Another friend (49) says: "At a man in the house I can do without me missing is the sex.." We had to laugh powerful, it sounded like after purification. For more than 20 years, we three sat together, all newly married and young mothers. And we told us how happy we are with our men, young fathers. They were so kind and had exciting jobs. And they wanted no other. Only us. And all the time. It was kind of flattering, but mostly annoying. We were tired from the baby were stress, hormones nor thrown off track after the birth, life was young and confused. Issues such as pacifiers or not, buying carpet, cottage, rates for the car we went through my head - and fought violently with the wishes of the (possibly not very sensitive, because inexperienced) man for sexual primary care.
Since we were all three of our favorite recipes out of the hat can, rent, telephone and insurance will be deducted regularly from the bank account, the children come only to visit and their relationship to one's parents is reasonably clear, we have much more time and leisure. Particularly for really good sex.

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