The 5 stages of flirting

Flirt is a naturally arise between two people who are sympathetic to. Often this is anything but easy. The entrance interview must be right, the flirting has to be interesting and personally, and still others may not think that he was only a friendly appeal. For all this to succeed, it can help to internalize the five-stage model of flirting before trying his luck.

The attention span

One knows from the movies: A man and a woman throwing glances at each other until he gets up and goes. Important in the first stage but only the first glance. They reveal the unconscious opposite of what you think. A brief look that does not focus on one particular area, but rather examines the whole picture is the first sign of interest. A longer view, clearly directed at the eye or other feature is evidence of greater interest.

The perception phase

Once it is determined that you have interest in each one tries to be perceived by others. Women play with their hair or lick unobtrusively on the lips, while men fall into a waiting attitude and stand with her friends at the center. This is the right moment to address the others.

The interaction phase

Crucial is the first exchange of words is not what you say but what you do. Through a series of behavioral patterns and body language shows it to the other party that you found it interesting. A man sits down legs, if he has interest in his interlocutor, however, a woman leans over to him and crosses his legs in his direction over the other.

The sexual phase

The first time you flirt yet nobody thinks about sex - and still is the fourth phase is to focus on the flirt on the intimate level. The woman will take the stage by the man casually touched on the arm or shoulder. Men should hold so long with random touching, until the woman begins. Before that women react more resistant to the touch. Should be avoided by both, the other to touch the face or genital area, which are both rather uncomfortable.

The binding phase

A flirtation arises out of sexual attraction and sexual activity goes on beyond. Whether in or outside of a relationship. When this phase is overcome, the two partners have used to each other. They come out from now, even without the first three phases from each other.