When sexual desire decline ...

Should we force them to make love? A recurring question that can never find the same answer. Not clear when the desire withers over time ... But what? The advice bloom but are they always good to take? An update!

For years, psychologists and sexologists are working on the subject and we bombard a thousand and a board for the libido returns. We always hear the famous refrain of "we do not force", "it rekindles the flame of organizing romantic weekends" ... And here they come: it seems to restart the machine, we must fight evil at the root, or treat evil with evil as the saying goes: you have to force him to make love to want to make love! You follow?

So why such a change?

Is a return to more traditional values ​​and a need to assume conjugal duty, to please not just the half or moral obligation?
Some authors state that idea in recent works. They insist for example that a woman should not expect or desire to come back. And so, it must be forced back to the fun ... (hope he comes back).
Others also are adding to explaining this lack of female desire often said that the husband takes a mistress.

Sex without love

We must also realize that making love is not always a moment of intense passion. And so, therefore, do not exaggerate this act, which can be very benign, and do not always lend too much weight. According to experts, the most important thing is regularity (such as sports, in fact), not the intensity (which must be there from time to time). Apparently, what would keep couples together in harmony.
It seems that after a time without sexual activity, the body "fall asleep". This must be avoided because once asleep, it becomes more difficult to wake.

Concessions for love?

Many psychologists take a position on the very traditional role of men and women in intimate relationships even going so far as to argue that the woman must submit to the will of her husband. In fact, they explain that the woman is less likely to want to make love and she can do without it for long periods, unlike humans. So, for couples to take, one must make concessions ... and is forced to have sex is one!
By cons, ask for some concessions to the spouse as well. It can for example accept certain conditions to do so, or certain activities in the act that you enjoy. It is always possible to find a compromise.

A forgotten pleasure?

For some women, lack of desire is also from the other: they do not feel pleasure with their partner. And there is more difficult to manage as a situation. All women have orgasms. And few of them have vaginal orgasms (intense and complete as the clitoral). So, consider exploring areas sensitive women with care and delicacy to recover or find the fun!

Cheers for communication!

So why a speech asking women to force resurfaced as in the days of our grandmothers? Some say it is because the rate of divorce that continues to climb.
Others argue that the reason is a true return to traditional values.
No matter who is right. In the area of ​​love, there is no speech or response set is in each case. And the best advice remains, at all times, the dialogue: do not break and talk about what's wrong.