Monday, September 26, 2011

Fall in love with a co-worker: for or against?

Love has no law, certainly, and even more so at work, where a recent study conducted by the job site Monster, about a couple of two forms. Positive or negative ... Discover what awaits you if you feel like! 

Love made in job
Specifically, according to the same study, 47% of employees have already had an affair in the office. And more than one European in two would have been an intimate story with a colleague. It's huge, you'd think most likely? And you're right, several conditions that make it easier ... Stress, routine work can enable this reconciliation. Also with the Internet or intranet instant messaging, and even mailboxes where it becomes easier to communicate and reveal his feelings. The occupation and skills you have can also be a center of common interest! And then you come across almost every day or several times a day!

The positive effects ...
Flirts with a colleague at work can sometimes be good! We get up lighter and happier going to work every morning. It also helps sometimes to be more efficient, for the sake of being admired by such person or to be replaced arch. It is beautiful every day to reach his office, without the need for a real opportunity to get ready. It is often very exciting to imagine being able to embrace one of his charming colleagues or be kissed without being seen, behind a door in room photocopiers ... Many employees eat this kind of fantasy.

The Bad ...
You suspect that this is too good and many hick there a. .. Risk because there are so many! It must first find its balance with the same person at work, the cross every day can cause some significant difficulties ... Conflicts and professional opinions on a shared folder, jealousy, desire revived every time you are together in the same room ... As for the break, if it succeeds can make the business climate terrible, unbearable ... and can sometimes go up to the transfer request! In addition, compared to colleagues or higher, you may appear less credible ... not to mention the noise corridor!

Not easy to manage a relationship with a colleague from work ... Yet, according to the results of this study, it seems almost inevitable! If this has happened, feel free to give your views to help those who are about to cause irreparable!