Preliminary advice

Preliminaries: passage sometimes (often?) Hommes.Trop neglected by men see them as optional or as a chore, while others do not take enough time for them to botch and move on ...

Yet, preliminary is not just to please the woman.

Little reminder on preliminary information and advice.

Why foreplay?

When asked "why women love they / do they require the preliminaries? "The answer is" Because they have no choice! ".
Indeed, sexual arousal does not work the same way men and women. So much for how it is caused, for its usefulness and its effects ...

In humans, the excitation is mainly caused by visual stimuli: a plunging neckline, a mini skirt, can excite a man. The women are only rarely excited by the sight of an intimate part of man. (A small percentage of women are in the order of 1%)

In humans, the excitement is almost instantaneous ... The desire comes from a sudden, you start to bend, and presto, we are ready to take action. In women, the excitement is long to climb (do not confuse excitement and desire for sex), and requires different stimuli: ambient sound (music, murmurs, ...), touch (hugs, ...) and many others.

The excitement is important for women. Without excitement, it does not take pleasure. The report is even mostly painful. The excitement was crucial because it helps lubricate the vagina, making it more elastic ...

You should know that the "hot" for preliminary (when you work with your fingers or your tongue: p), ideally, should last 10 minutes or more (there is nothing mandatory, but it just better for your partner) so that her vagina is really ready for a more advanced. In other words, if you neglect the preliminaries, ask yourself if your partner takes the pleasure she should / could do if you were less sloppy.

In short, preliminary, it is good, eat it:)

Foreplay to excite / make you want sex

According to women is more or less hard.
One might say, if we were not gentlemen, that the biggest sex organ of the woman is his whole body - especially, his skin ...
A woman who begins to be excited, becomes very sensitive to the touch when it wants to make love . That's why they need lots of hugs ...

Another thing to know: they are very sensitive to the sound of the voice (women can receive up to 6 tones of voice, while men do not generally receive 3 to 4) and are also very sensitive to the words chosen .

When he tells a story, a woman tends to represent in his mind with images (that's why a lot of women enjoy erotic literature, more than the porn movies that appeal to men because that if they are visual).

A technique to use is to tell him what you make it ... but do not do it right now, just wait for it to have time to think.
Women like what is called "anticipation." Basically, it is necessary to ensure that they imagine what will follow ... give them time to think, so do not go too fast ...

Of preliminary preparation for the sex

Rather than long and tedious explanation, here is an example of preliminary. See this as a suggested menu, rather than a procedure absolutely "Thin I forgot step # 12! ". Remember, sex is (as seduction) an art, not mechanics.

Place yourself in a comfortable position that allows you to use your tongue and your hands together.

Keep in mind that you must be gentle caresses, when it comes to her vulva, wet: the stroking or fingering "dry" is unpleasant for the girl, or even downright painful. And even if wet, it is necessary to lubricate the area, so feel free to use your saliva - but please, forget the methods "porn-style" did not spit on it directly, do it discreetly ... unless she likes it, but it does not matter.

You could for example make him oral sex, use your fingers, accessories, or 3, as long as you take both fun to "play" as well.

Finally some details:

all women are not comfortable with cunnilingus. It is therefore important, very important that they are totally relaxed. l do not think that you do not like him a cunnilingus and you force yourself. Put it in trust, make small "hmmm" to show that you value, etc ... If she does not like the cunnilingus, stimulate her clitoris with your fingers, putting saliva (it has to be always well wet, sorry if I repeat much of it but it's important) .7
Do not neglect his other erogenous zones: her breasts, buttocks, neck, all erogenous sensitive parts of her body and may be subject to your attention during the preliminary (and, obviously, after).

Voila, I hope it will help to show more care and creativity in your sexual games. Ladies will not forget to thank me ^ ^