Making love the first time

The first time we will make love, and we are still starting in matters of sexual relations, it raises many questions: how to make love , foreplay, erection problems, and many more.

Here are some tips for the first time for beginners, so that their first sexual experience run as smoothly as possible:)

Making love the first time

One thing to know when one is beginning: the first time are often "disappointing" or even, failed, in the sense that it will be made ​​a big deal, and ultimately, the big day, it is too clumsy / inexperienced / stressed to whether the fireworks that were expected.

Do not worry, sex is like any more you practice the better you get, and it gets better. Because we are already more relaxed, and then because we know better do it. So do not panic if the first few times are not great.

If you have problems with erection or if it does not last long the first time do not panic! It's just stress you put too much pressure. It will improve as and when confidence replaces the stress.

Also be aware that for a girl, the first time can be quite painful: it is not death, it's like a small cut, but go easy. And do not be surprised or stress if it does not have an orgasm or not fun at all. If during the first penetration she hurt, stop and let her decide on. And even the next time, it takes time for girls to begin to have fun with sex.

So do not your first time to a sex hot as in porn videos you download, you'd probably be disappointed. It happens, but this is not the most common:)

For most people, the first time is not great. It does not matter, everyone passes by. You progress with experience, and take more and more fun.

Care, protection

The basic rule: if you are not tested or not faithful, always use a condom. You can have a sex with a beautiful babe, if we do not protect and has AIDS, is the caught even if it is perfect, and life ends there, stupidly.

The condom is a contraceptive that will prevent your sexual partner becomes pregnant in 99% of cases, but also to protect against diseases (AIDS and other STDs) most effective.

Then, if your relationship becomes serious and you are faithful to each other, both go to a STD test at the hospital, you can then stop the condom and choose the pill BUT ONLY if you stay faithful (unprotected infidelity is the best way to bring back life-threatening shit in his marriage, so be careful and responsible).

The erection

Very often (and, almost always) that beginners have sex a few small problems with erection. Do not worry, it's stress and nothing else.

Not need viagra, cialis no need, all you need is uninhibited, take being inexperienced (there goes all that way, including your partner): talk to it always helps . If it is experienced, it will be a delight in you take over and it will be very pleasant for you, and if it is not, you will blindly both by being attentive to one the other and it will be perfect for both.

The preliminary

We talk at length in the articles "the preliminary "and" preliminary advice "foreplay is very important. First of all because it is part of the pleasures of sex and they are very erotic, but also because they are designed to "prepare" the girl in the exciting sex: foreplay not allow have pain during sex and have fun.

Read on the forum (Lauren) 'Careful with your fingers. "

1) Watch out for nails, they must be short. And even if they are short, some women are sensitive enough to feel it, and when it's not really painful, is super bad at least for some. As the teeth for oral sex.
2) Because if the girl does not have abundant lubrication, the fact you touch the vagina will dry out even more.
So it may be well to toy with your fingers, but why must the girl is already in a state of excitement, or it crashes.
The best is indeed extended foreplay, or even stroking the clitoris or the area around, depending on the sensitivity of the lady. Beware the clitoris is not a button, if it does not work, it's useless to press harder. In any case if the girl is inexperienced you will not get anywhere by being pressed.

Fellatio

A basic thing is to never try to force it. Do not support him on the head, that sort of thing: it's degrading, humiliating and extremely uncomfortable, even disturbing, especially if the girl inexperience. It must be said that a girl sufficiently excited (through preliminary) will come naturally nine times out of 10, maybe not the first time, but when she is at ease and confident.

To know about oral sex: if it does not have mouth sores, you can do it without a condom is much better, both for her than for you.

The hairs

The hairs keep the sweat and bacteria, and cause a strong odor in sex. Not great.

All the guys do not, but it's more enjoyable for the girl, if not completely shave the pubic area and balls, you can at least "clearing" with small scissors to remove the largest. And then it may encourage your girlfriend to do the same if it does not already, it's still more fun and it makes games more enjoyable sex.

But if you are a beginner, it's your first time, do not take the head with it.

The penetration

Lubricate

It happens that sometimes a girl does not wet enough, or because it is like that (it depends on the girls) or because the preliminaries were botched: it is then necessary to remedy, without which the penetration will be painful for her and for you.

Saliva is usually sufficient, but sometimes it can cause urinary tract infections. You can also use the lubricant, but only intimate gels with water or silicone-based: Never oil (like olive oil) or Vaseline: Vaseline oil and poke holes in condoms.

The penetration

Read this article for detailed advice on the penetration , especially on a question often posed by beginners that stress, "how to find the hole")

Give him pleasure

Nothing more can a woman that a man who makes love "selfish", thinking only pleasure. Girls hate it, talk about their girlfriends and you're toast, cataloged bad move. To be a good time, i must therefore think of the pleasure. Moreover, the best way to have fun is to enjoy a girl , it makes unbridled in bed and makes you 100 times the same.

To give him pleasure, do not hesitate to innovate and take initiatives:

contact her to see if it's going (girls love to be spoken for love, not necessarily "dirty talk", but we communicate with them)
change positions, or even pause to resume early: do not believe that sex should be "all right", it can print some turns, speed changes, doing like this, it can last a long time and be very good. It can help to catch his breath, or even to get a proper erection.
Take matters into their hands: that girls like to be the guy who "dominates" (this is not to be violent, but to "direct"): do not be a soft.
Do not stop the jackhammer not: change the speed and angle of penetration: the girls we especially like "go in the corners."
Do not be too brutal: some positions may irritate or injure the vagina of the girl, which is quite fragile. Go ahead frankly, but so be attentive to his reactions, and do not insist if it hurts.

Ejaculation

Ejaculation usually means the end of sex: little boys are able to continue after. It is physiological, we simply can not, unless they have trained with special techniques, we will discuss in another article.

Whatever may have been to say, the technique of withdrawal (just before I retire to enjoy) is not a means of birth control at all: again, wear a condom or use the pill if you're a couple.

The facial

Even if your favorite movies in the facial is common, little girls really like: it is mostly an adventure of guy who tries to take pleasure in reproducing what he saw in porn . There's, however it girls who like cum facials: some love even that, the facial is a practice that affects certain fantasies, including SM ... If your partner is open, why not. But if you miss every other experience, it is best to wait a while to test this stuff.

Quantity and consistency of sperm

Many on the forum seem to pose the question of the amount of semen ejaculated and consistency of semen. The answer is simple: it depends on the people ... and days! Some sperm liquid and clear, in others it is more "lumpy" it depends on the concentration of sperm in the semen. As for quantity, sperm is produced continuously, but it makes sense that you ejaculate more sperm if you do not have sex for some time.

Namely: the amount of semen ejaculated does not influence your enjoyment or your girlfriend. The pleasure of sex is not only in ejaculation, although ejaculation comes with the male orgasm.

After orgasm

After so much action and fun, stay with her, let her snuggle against you. Some girls (mostly) like to talk right after. In general, men prefer to come to their senses ... or even sleep: a prime example of the fact that men and women are not made like that.

The last word

You are a beginner sex: do not take the head, do not put pressure, assume your inexperience calmly, it will come with time. Communicate with your partner, listen to him (very important) and above, use a condom as you are tested negative for all STDs.

Over time, you will have more experience and confidence, and your sex life will grow and flourish for your enjoyment. Then you can try new sex games, new sexual practices, described in the articles section of FTS sex.

In case of problems, difficulties, or if you just any questions, feel free to ask on the forum sex FTS : the other members, men and women will try to answer as best they can, without judge you or make you uncomfortable. Remember the key to great sex is to know and be able to speak freely, without fear or embarrassment.